Saturday, December 23, 2006
oprah's opinion about men~!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you
can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it
against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change
comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are... even if he has more education or in
a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship
You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two
WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.
Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man
always know where you are, and you're always
readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that you need.* Keep him in your radar
but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they
know)... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and
an entire lifetime to forget them.
Advice from Angel,
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of
women stay in relationships that are abusive or
hurtful : DrPhill
You should know that you're the best thing that
could ever happen to anyone and if a man
mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he
was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know
that he's not the only one. They're all watching
you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right
one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts...
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